You married… yourself?!?!?
So I KNOW y’all heard about this lady who done married… HERSELF. THIS IS CRAZY TO ME!!!!! A Houston woman named Yasmin Eleby promised herself a long time ago that she would be MARRIED BY THE TIME SHE...
View ArticleJust intimidated… ?
So a recent article came out addressing women who feel men are scared or intimidated by their success, independence and ability to financially support themselves… Listen, not the case. Here’s the...
View ArticleHeaux (hoes) in denial
OK ladies, we need to call out some new tomfoolery that’s been going on. Just because you have sex with a man that does not make him your man, boo, boyfriend or anything. Most times, sex- it just sex....
View Articlegrowing or grooming
There’s a difference between growing with a guy and grooming him… to be fit for someone else. In some cases you’ll hear a woman who prefers a younger or inexperienced man because she can ‘mold’ him....
View ArticleIndependent! … and alone
*cues Webbie’s Independent* I-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t do you know what that mean mayne? I-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t do you know what that mean? She got her own house She got her own...
View ArticleI want that too…
Ok fellas, this one isn’t really for you. Now with that being said, this is for those women who are suffering with the “but I want that” bug right now. These are the females who see their peers getting...
View ArticlePositions & Titles
This topic is well over due, primarily for ladies and will hopefully put some things into perspective for you confused chicks. There is undoubtedly a difference between your title & position in a...
View Articlefemales screw up too
Women always talk about how they don’t want to be bribed and bought, first of all STOP LYING! Females want to be spoiled, now guys no that’s not all. However, I’m not here to address the men today, I...
View ArticleRelationships don’t change, people do
You hear a lot of people (primarily women) say “what you did to get it, you have to do to keep it”. So first of all, until you’ve said “I do” -you’re single, & until that day happens you are dating...
View ArticleJust ruined the birthday
It grinds my gears to see proposals happen during other major events. Get your own day! –@xclusivelyShar Tagged: advice, common sense, dating, happiness, men, mistake, people, personal advisor,...
View Articlewas that the best you could come up with?
–@xclusivelyshar Tagged: advice, common sense, denial, excuse, fail, girls, happiness, men, mistake, people, personal advisor, relationship, Truth, women
View ArticleThe ‘honest’ cheater
I want to know people,do you prefer a mate tell you up front that you will not be the only one he/she is seeing? Or would you rather believe you’re the only one, until otherwise stated? Personally, I...
View Articleask no questions, hear no lies
I have NO idea what it is about my face or personality that draws people to the conclusion they can/should say whatever they want to me. Dear sir(s)/madam(s) you TRIED the RIGHT one. Nope, I’m not...
View ArticleDear “nice-guy” (rant)
I’m going to lose a few of my male followers over this… #sorrynotsorry To the men who are “not afraid to admit I’m a nice guy”- SHUT THE F*$K UP!!!!! That’s like saying “I like long walks in the park”…...
View Articlerules of jumping; jumpee edition
Rules to being a GOOD side chick! The Jumpee is the person entering into a relationship as a side piece. I got these rules from a real life jump-off, she laid everything on the table as to how she...
View ArticleWanna be royalty
Y’all are irritating! There is a new fad going around to be “Kings/ Queens”… now I know among some (black) people, we hang on to the story of being descendants of African Kings/Queens, Hotep filled...
View ArticleDear Houseguest(s)
SOME RULES- because apparently not everyone was taught how to be a houseguest (yes, you should have been taught) If you give a deadline, (example) “I just need to crash for 2 weeks” have your a** out...
View ArticleEverybody plays the fool
Allow me to be straight forward; new relationships make people stupid .Not just romantically but in the workplace, money transactions, media, everything. When entering into something new along with...
View ArticleDon’t guilt trip me for being great
Someone recently told me, “its crowded at the bottom, there’s more than enough, almost too much room at the top”. There are 24 hours a day, unlimited learning opportunities, and the ability to choose....
View ArticleBut I’m (un)comfortable
ah comfort! That thing that puts us at ease, that thing we are used to, that makes us feel good. I was recently asked, “Do you think fear stops you sometimes from moving forward?” my answer was simple...
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